Love Like Christ
Daily Rays of Hope #20
May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had." — Romans 15:5 (NIV)
Kindness, especially in challenging situations, is a reflection of Christ’s heart. Romans 15:5 reminds us that the same endurance and encouragement we receive from God should inspire us to treat one another with the same attitude of love and grace that Jesus displayed. This doesn’t mean avoiding boundaries or allowing harmful behaviors, but rather choosing to respond with patience, humility, and compassion—even when it’s difficult.
Maturing in faith often means enduring moments of hurt or unkindness. These situations can feel overwhelming, but they are opportunities to grow in grace. Jesus Himself endured rejection, betrayal, and cruelty, yet He responded with love and forgiveness.
In Luke 23:34, as He hung on the cross, He prayed, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” His example shows us that extending kindness is not dependent on the actions of others but rooted in our identity as followers of Christ.
When we choose kindness, even in the face of unkindness, we reflect the transformative power of God’s love. Ephesians 4:32 encourages us, “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” This doesn’t mean ignoring hurt but choosing to process it through the lens of grace, allowing God to heal and guide our hearts toward peace.
Three Practical Ways to Apply This in Challenging Situations:
Pause and Pray: When someone hurts you, take a moment to pause and pray for them and for yourself. Ask God for the strength to respond in kindness rather than reacting in frustration or anger.
Seek Understanding: Try to see the situation through the other person’s perspective. They may be acting out of their own pain or struggles. This perspective can soften your heart and help you extend grace.
Respond with Love: Choose one tangible act of kindness toward the person, such as offering a kind word, a listening ear, or even a silent prayer for their well-being. Your response may plant a seed of healing in their heart.
Let God’s endurance and encouragement fill your heart today, empowering you to extend kindness to others. By choosing to reflect Christ’s attitude, you bring His love into even the most difficult situations.